[Disclaimer: This is
not based on personal experience J]
(At the front door of a house, Relative 1 and Friend arrive carrying casserole dishes)
Friend: You sure they’re gonna like my mashed potatoes?
Relative 1: (Ringing the doorbell) Probably – and if they don’t, they’re decent enough to say so behind your back instead of to your face.
Friend: Oh good.
(Door is opened by Relative 2)
Relative 2: (As everyone hugs) Hiiiiii!!! Happy Thanksgiving! Glad you could make it!
Relative 1 and Friend: (As the group clusters into the vestibule) Happy Thanksgiving!
Relative 2: (Taking their coats and both dishes with practiced ease while also closing the front door) Come in, come in, make yourselves at home! (Leans in with a low voice) Listen: just a heads-up that – ahem – Elder Cousin is also here today.
Relative 1: (Also in a low voice) What? I haven’t seen her in years – I thought she died.
Relative 2: (Somehow smacks Relative 1 on the arm while still holding the coats and dishes) You hush your mouth! No, she’s still with us, bless her heart, so I invited her today, and she came. (Glares at Relative 1) So behave.
Relative 1: (Rubbing arm and mumbling) I always behave.
Relative 2: (Smiles at Friend) Would you like something to drink?
Friend: I’m good right now, thanks.
Relative 2: All righty – nibbles are out, so help yourselves! I’ll be in the kitchen for the next five hours. (Hustles off to toss the coats into a spare room and resume Mission: Thanksgiving Dinner)
Friend: (Whispers to Relative 1 as they make their way to the living room) Remind me: who’s “Elder Cousin”?
Relative 1: Oh, she’s technically the head of the extended family now by default, but we don’t see her so much on this side. When she does make an appearance though, well….
Friend: What?
Relative 1: (They both stop walking) You ever been around someone who literally sucks the energy out of an entire room?
Friend: Once or twice.
Relative 1: Then you know.
Friend: So, the usual “don’t discuss religion and politics”, but in this case to the extreme?
Relative 1: Actually, those topics would probably be a welcome distraction today.
Friend: (As they start walking again) Oh, my.
(In the living room)
Relative 1: (Opens arms wide and smiles extremely broadly) Happy Thanksgiving, everybody!
Relatives 3-8: (Enthusiastically jump up from their seats) Happy Thanksgiving!
(Hugs and kisses all around take a few minutes)
Relative 1: (Still smiling broadly, turns to Elder Cousin seated on the couch) Happy Thanksgiving! (Gives a kiss, then gestures to Friend who waves at Elder Cousin) Not sure if you met before, but this is my friend –
Elder Cousin: (To Friend) I remember you.
Friend: (Frozen smile) Oh?
Elder Cousin: We met briefly at Great-Granddad’s funeral. You were very polite.
Friend: (Thinks back quickly) Oh… yes! Thank you – that was…?
Elder Cousin: Seven years and two months ago. I never forget a burial.
Friend: Ah.
Elder Cousin: (As Relatives 3-8 slowly sit down again on chairs and focus on the nibbles) It was like a dream that day: still summer, and yet there was a sudden frost so it almost looked like there was snow on the ground. And Great-Granddad – so peaceful, yet I could still feel his judgement upon us all.
Friend: …I do remember the frost.
Elder Cousin: I should hope so, because it’s the last we’ll ever see this side of New Year’s, let me tell you. Not that it’s ever done me any good.
Relative 1: (Claps hands briskly) Awesome! So where’s the food?
Relative 3: (Leaps up from an armchair) I’ll get you a plate! (Zooms toward the dining room where all the appetizers are laid out)
Relative 1: (Panics as escape has been foiled) No-no, I’ll get it –
Relative 3: I INSIST! (Vanishes like the wind)
Elder Cousin: (Pats the couch on both sides of her; to Relative 1 and Friend) Have a seat. (They sit slowly in the spots indicated)
Relative 1: Soooo… did you watch the parade today?
Elder Cousin: No. Those things are displays of excess that crush the spirit.
Relative 1: Mm-hm, mm-hm…. Read any good books lately?
Elder Cousin: I haven’t read a good book in 50 years.
Relative 1: [Sighs in literal deflation]
(A few moments of silence, broken up by chewing)
Relative 4: (Perks up) We had the school play a few weeks ago – I was the lead.
Relatives 1, 5-8, and Friend: (All at once) Wonderful! That’s great! Congratulations!
Elder Cousin: Enjoy the feeling while it lasts: you’ll never be on top of the world like that again.
Relative 4: Really?
Relative 5: (In a low voice to Relative 4) Don’t.
Elder Cousin: Experiences like that are fleeting, ephemeral – it feels amazing at the time, but passes all too soon and ultimately means nothing. Makes you wonder why we even bother in the first place.
Relative 4: Oh. Why do we bother?
Relative 5: (Pats Relative 4 comfortingly on the shoulder) It’s OK, dear – eat your cheese and crackers.
(Relative 2 rushes into the living room)
Relative 2: It’s done! It’s finally done, ahahahahaha! (Everyone else stares blankly back) Anybody want to help me bring all the stuff to the table or what?
(Relatives 4-8 leap up and run to the kitchen, grabbing Relative 3 holding an overflowing plate on the way)
Elder Cousin: (To Relative 1) You never got your plate of appetizers. Want me to go tell that cousin of yours to bring it over with your dinner?
Relative 1: No, that’s OK – it’s a moot point now.
(Relative 1 and Friend walk with Elder Cousin to the dining room; plates and bowls continue to be brought in and glasses filled until there is no more room on the table, and everyone sits down)
Relative 2: (Smiling at the guests) I want to thank you all for coming today and sharing in our family tradition! How about we all go around the table and say what we’re thankful for? (Nods to Relative 6 nearby) You first.
Relative 6: (Raises a glass) That’s easy: I’m thankful for good health, good family, and good gravy, heh-heh-heh.
(Scattered chuckles across the table)
Relative 2: That’s great! (To Elder Cousin) And what are you thankful for?
Elder Cousin: Not much: existence is a burden that we’re unjustly saddled with, and anyone who thinks otherwise is fooling themselves. (After a few moments) Could somebody pass me the cranberry sauce?
Relative 2: (Hands over the bowl) Well, that was fun! Dig in, everyone!
Relative 7: (As everyone starts dishing food onto their plates) Well, I’m thankful for –
Relative 8: Save it: the moment’s over.
Relative 7: Right.
(After a few minutes of contended eating)
Friend: (To Relative 2) Thank you so much for all this; everything tastes great! (Murmurs of assent from full mouths around the table)
Relative 2: Aw, thank you! You know the old joke: it takes weeks to prepare, days to make, and minutes for it all to be eaten up and gone, with hours of clean-up afterward…. (Looks off into the distance and sighs)
Elder Cousin: Exactly: no point to any of it. Might as well pay someone to cater – save yourself the stress and also the time that we all have less and less of. (Takes another helping of mashed potatoes) I mean, don’t get me wrong: everything here is delicious, you’re an excellent chef, but are we even going to remember what this tasted like a day from now, much less decades later when our memories slowly fade into oblivion?
Relative 4: (Raises hand) I will – (Relative 5 gently lowers the other’s hand)
Elder Cousin: You’re young yet: enjoy the company here today, child, for nothing is certain.
(Eating around the table gradually tapers off)
Relative 1: (Frantically) So! How about those wacky politicians, eh?!
Relative 3: (Sitting on the other side of Relative 1, dazedly holding a turkey leg) You’re too late: I don’t even have the will to fight with you about that stuff anymore.
Relative 1: (Tears apart a roll) …Rats.
(During the massive clean-up, as many people as possible have crammed themselves into the kitchen so Relative 1 and Friend escort Elder Cousin back to their original positions on the living room couch)
Friend: Well, that was delicious.
Relative 1: Yeah, I don’t think I can fit another bite, so I’ll probably only be able to sample about half the desserts this year, if I’m lucky. (Both chuckle)
Elder Cousin: Gluttony.
Friend: (To Elder Cousin) So what was your favorite dish? (Relative 1 shakes head and widens eyes in warning at Friend)
Elder Cousin: (Shrugs) Eh, they all blur together into one giant carbohydrate. Keep the insides ticking for another day, so that’s all that really matters, bottom line.
Friend: Uh-huh.
Elder Cousin: I do have a soft spot for that cranberry sauce, though.
Friend: It sure was tasty.
Elder Cousin: And your mashed potatoes were all right.
Friend: Thank you!
Elder Cousin: But the rest I could take or leave.
Relative 1: Aw, that’s too bad – maybe skip the whole thing next year, hm?!
Elder Cousin: I would, but I keep getting invited to these things no matter what comes out of my mouth; I guess the pull of family is too strong.
Relative 1: (Leans back on the couch and closes eyes contentedly while listening to the happy voices in the other room) The strongest force there is.
